If you are reading this blog post, you are likely at the place in your journey to parenthood where you just heard that you will need donor eggs. For most of you, this news came as a complete surprise and probably tears as you sat across the desk from your doctor trying to concentrate on the words coming out of their mouth.

What should I look for in a surrogate? Some already have preconceived notions as to what is important. Choosing a surrogate is something that should be done with the utmost thought and consideration.

There are a few things to consider as you tell your children about your surrogacy journey. The way you approach the conversation will depend on your child’s age and cognitive ability, whether there are other siblings in your family, and the support and awareness around you, your family, and your community.